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4.03.2011

The GGA Project -- Day #113 "Walking Rainbows"

I don't know about you, but I've always sort of resented having to suppress my desires to smear random strangers with handfuls of fine, brightly colored powder.  Thank goodness for the saving grace of


Today's New Activity: Celebrating Holi


which gave the whole desire-to-smear-colors-all-over-strangers a giant green light :)


My friend Nessa invited me to come along with her and some new friends, Brenna and Evan, for today's festivities.  I was so happy about that, because I've been wanting to join in this fun for a few years now...but I never remember about it until a week later, or just later that day when I see people walking around covered in head-to-toe color.


Holi is a Hindu festival that is celebrated at the onset of spring, and I've just learned from my friend Wikipedia that it is celebrated to commemorate one of two different events, depending upon who's telling it.  One tradition says it's meant to observe the death a woman named Holika, who died when her brother Prahlada was trying to put his arrogant father in his rightful place, with respect to the Lord Vishnu.  Another says has to to with the love god Kamaveda, whose disruption of Shiva's meditation led to his demise and ultimate restoration in another, symbolic love form.  I'm not sure which version of the events is being celebrated by the majority of Hindus here in the Bay Area, but I'm glad they've shared it with the rest of us.


The Holi celebration held at Stanford's Sandhill Fields is put on by Asha for Education, a group which donates the festival's proceeds to the education of children in India.  Paid admission to the event gets you, first, a friendly "Happy Holi!" from these official people in vests, accompanied by a fistful of color, straight to the face.




Can you imagine?!  Their whole job for the day is to welcome clean-faced, white-shirted folks through the doors with the first of many splashes of color at the hands of strangers.  I would LOVE to be one of those festival ushers for the day!  It's such a surprise--that first contact from a person you've never even seen before, but it's such a happy reaching out that all you can do it smile big and dive right in. 

Asha also provided the colors for everyone, but they distributed them (wisely it seems) in small handfuls at a time so the supply would last the whole day.


Each booth of this kind had about 6 color passers out, working from giant sacks of colored powder and handing them out to people so eager for them you'd think it was edible, and they were starving.  We were right there with them, though.  And some colors were rarely passed out, so that when a person did start distributing them the crowd would shout out a collective "Greeeen!!!" and rush to the purveyor of the goods.

Once you had a handful of rainbow happiness, you were free to turn to any person in the vicinity and spread it on their back, shoulders, neck, hair, or their face, and people were of course free to respond in kind.  I'd say few experiences I've had matched today's in terms of stranger intimacy--the good kind.  After a while, the best part was hanging out near the entrance and having the chance to give people their first big doses of color.  And some people brought their own colors--deep, deep midnight blue, vibrant purple and magenta, and the happiest shade of marigold--which stood out brilliantly.

And what would this festival have been without music?!  There were performances from a number of different dance groups


And when nobody was performing, a really good DJ (or maybe it was recorded, I'm not sure) was playing all the most popular Bollywood hits for the happy crowd of revelers.  It actually made me really miss watching Bollywood movies and listening to the songs, which I haven't done in a while.  Being quite sure my music-loving son digs that music and dancing, I'm going to start watching and listening to them with him.



This picture was taken about one hour into our time there, so we were all plenty more covered by the time we left, but it was the best kind of dirty that grownups are allowed to have in public.  I have no idea how monumental a task it's gonna be to get all this color out tonight, but whatever it takes, it'll be worth it  :)






I'll end with this song, which isn't new but which I heard for the first time today and liked instantly.  The lyrics are totally joy riding gangsta, but I like the beat and the sound of it.



12.31.2010

The GGA Project -- Day #20 "To New Years"

(Timestamp is wrong...this was written a good deal after midnight)


I had all sorts of awesome plans (mostly in my own mind) to go out, go dancing last night.  I have been feeling the growing desire to revisit a feeling I only get when I just basically dance until I lose it.  You know, in a good way.  Unfortunately I made those plans with a friend who has been working 6 days a week for like a year and half now, and what she wanted to do most of all was to relax.  Understandable.


But what to do then?


I was invited to join in the festivities at the home of my friend Kenneth's girlfriend, Jessica (my friend also, now that I've finally had the chance to meet her a few times :)  What a beautiful home!  What a warm, open family!  It wasn't the kind of party I was expecting to attend tonight (it was actually at her parents' home, so the scene I first walked in on was a room bumping with about 35 parents (like parents *my* parents' age) and some young kids).  All the folks I knew were kicking it around an outdoor fireplace, but I didn't know that yet.


Today's New Activity: *New* New Years Venue


In 5 out of the past 6 years, I've celebrated the new year at the same bar/pub place, which was a place I wasn't even all that fond of...but it was comfortable and familiar.  I was excited to have the chance, this year (and having already secured babysitting with the folks--yay!), to make the decision of where new years would be spent all on my own.  But I have to admit I wasn't all that excited at first about the prospect of a house party.  Like I said, I wanted to be out dancing.


Buuuut, it ended up being a *better* party than I expected to be at tonight, partially on account of that grown-up/slightly less grown-up mix of people...of ill-advised things the younger folks might be known to do:




(Haha.  They FOUND it.  I don't know how, but they found it (Little "Back to the Future" reference there, for all you children of the 80's).  I did not participate in the four loko madness (and thankfully nobody got crazy on that), except to try a coduple of sips, and I have to say it is the most disgusting thing I have ever tasted that was actually sold that way.  Ewww.  It should have been banned on those grounds alone, nevermind the danger it apparently posed to over-indulgent teens.)


And of the nice traditions of a family...we released together--about 100 people in attendance or so--what seemed like hundreds of balloons to commemorate the New Year.


Plus, I got to ring in the new year with some people I've considered myself very lucky to have become reacquainted with in recent months.


And hey, THIS was new to me:  I can't seem to get my video to load, but there was firedancing (not sure that's the right term) going on at one point (thanks for the show Brenna, Peter, and Jeanette!).


All the way around it was a very nice night.  And I'm not one for New Years resolutions, but this time around I really am looking forward to making this year better than the last was.  For certain, and as much as I have control over this, it will be less stressful, more adventurous and outgoing, and is sure to include more dancing than 2010.


New year. New outlook.  And, as ever, life is good.


Also, jeeze, I just love this song/scene: